It is really hard to accepts by parents if teenager showing some behaviors which is not acceptable by folks especially my daughter who used to just rolled her eyes if i am always keep on reminding her. She said she is not anymore a child . But there is something i noticed to them , they don't want me to talk so much . As part of adolescence they tried to find their own identities so not all times they need me to remind everything they do as like when they were in younger age.
Two years ago i attended Seminar on parenting in our church. The speaker said that if a young teenager is not listening or disagrees parents rules and regulation or neglects your standard , stay calm and if you can't say anything good, better keep silent and show to him that you are there for them and pray that your teenagers rebellion will be over.
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nay, nagulat naman ako sa inasal ng son mo... part of adolescene yan... ako din dumaan sa ganyan... madalas pag lumalabas ng sungay ko at sinusuwag ko si inay... BUT i always make i say sorry to my mom before the day wraps up.
The Teen years - ouch - I don't envy what you are going thru because I've been there,done that! I handed in my Mom card a few years ago - yes you will survive this - and perhaps you'd find some refreshing tidbits on my blog. I'll be following yours! erasingthebored.blogspot.com
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Ouch, sakit nga nyan, sakit sa tenga but yeah it's part of being a teenager but we should put limits when it should be enough. Thanks for sharing and nice blog.
i think that's normal. but you can always talk to them and tell them how you feel.
thanks for dropping by sa blog ko po:))
it's true WE teenagers are sometimes like that, i mean, there's just a part in our lives na mejo parang nagrerebelde..
i'm one:D
pero minsan, pagsabihan natin ang ating mga anak kahit alam nating they're going through some stage..
kasi natu.o talaga ko nung pinagsasabihan nila ako lagi..
or try reverse pyschology? hehe.
i hope things go okay between you and your anak po:D thanks ulit^^
Thanks for this entry, I'm a mom of 4 teenagers too. Sometimes I don't understand their behavior, at most times I'm like them too exchanging that childish banter. But I thank you for sharing what you learned about parenting.
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alam mo nanay belen tama ka dyan, marami sa mga bata ngayon ay bastos, kung tama nga ang salita ko...
minsan ganyan din ako sa anak ko na babae, isa lang naman ang anak ko kaya masakit din sa akin na parang wala na yung respect na dapat ay makukuha natin sa ating mga anak..
Your children is undegoing the adolescene stage and want to break through their parents "very protective" attitude. This doesn't mean that they don't want you anymore but they need to break away. But don't worry at the end of the day they are always your little angels that will come back to you. just guide them towards adolescence and give them time not as a baby but a teenager. treat them as a teenagers and not as your babies.They need guidance at their stage specially this is the stage where many influences their personality and behaviors.ciao ^^
Hayy iba na yata talaga ang mga teenagers ngayon Nay..
Thanks for sharing what you learned at the seminar, meron din po akong teenager ngayon and sometimes i don't know what to do na rin to discipline her especially sa studies nya..
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